Life !!

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  • Birth
  • Study
  • Earn
  • Marry
  • Give new life
  • Make children study
  • Make children get married

And the cycle goes generation after generation. As a human being, do we always live for the society which is made by you and me !!

What more does my life have ? Where actually my life is ? 

Life does not end with the above cycle. It’s more than that. Your own personal space is very important. At times, we have to take spend time for ourself. Read a book, enjoy an ice cream, go for a walk, do some charity, get wet in the rain, have a talk with a friend, do shopping for you, etc,. 

Should we not do something for oneself. Should we not do something more to feel different from others. Are we not unique in all aspects.

Let’s think and act !! Rather than going in the same cycle of life, we can have a deviated path. Which makes our life more colourful than the existing. 🙂
Cheers 🙂

Mommy

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3rd April, 2015

The Big day arrives for Dhivnesh and Vinutha. After 7+ yrs of unconditional love, 2+ yrs of cold war & verbal fights with Vinutha’s parents they decided to get married on this day. As this was happening in India, there were so many obstacles like caste, religion, family origin, customs, etc,. But their love & trust has brought them to this Big-Day of Wedding. With the blessings and support from Dhivnesh’s family & friends they enter the beautiful relationship named ‘marriage’. They start their family life happily. 🙂 🙂

Though Vinutha was happy about her marriage, the new family, the new place and the new people’s love there was something bothering her all day and night. It was her thoughts about her dad, mom and brother. She misses them a lot. Most of the times, her smile was just a smile. She hides her tears from the world 🙂 😦 Knowing all this, Dhivnesh stood helpless.

Life goes on. Dhivnesh stays in Malaysia. At times Vinutha travels to Malaysia. From there they plan their vacations. Nice jolly trips. 😛 😉 Slowly Vinutha gets tired. She feels some sort of nausea & queasiness. Yayyyyyyy she confirms it’s her pregnancy of 45+ days 🙂 🙂 1/4” long foetus is growing within herself. She starts feeling it. She is in cloud nine. She is becoming a mom, missing her mom.

The foetus… Oops .. The baby.. Small Vinutha/Dhivnesh is in growth phase. Vinutha is advised by everyone around that she has to eat so much of fruits, vegetables and greens. Yeah all healthy foods and no junk food (no KFC 😛 ). Vinutha is excited to see how everyone around her is happy about it and treats her specially.

The baby eats whatever Vinutha eats. If it does not like it, immediate reaction is shown. Vomiting. Ha ha 😀 😀 So eat what the baby likes. Monthly check ups happens and there comes the scan results. Both of them are very happy to see the baby grow. Though the scan does not show the features clearly, still identifying the baby in the scan is really an awesome feel. She slowly moves her palm over the small belly caressing her baby inside. 🙂  ‘Love u mom’, reply from the baby. 🙂

Almost 6 months have gone. Now she is happy to see baby’s tiny fingers, toes, arms, legs and head. They baby moves. She feels that movement. Baby gives giggles to mom. 🙂 🙂 Baby hiccups give jerks to mom. The scan report says that the baby is 10” long. Good growth. Vinutha starts talking to the baby. But still few more months left to see this world. The baby needs to grow further and take good nutrients from mommy. Baby has to listen to mommy. 🙂

12th June, 2016

Early morning 4.00 AM, Vinutha feels her abdominal pain with a pre-menstrual feeling and cramps. Dhivnesh takes her to the hospital immediately. The baby is ready to see the world. The baby’s position changes to prepare itself for labour and delivery. Slowly the painful contractions or tightening begins in the pelvic region. Vinutha hears, the baby ‘Mama pull me out, I wanna see the world’ 🙂 At 12.06 PM the baby comes out fresh to see this world. Yeah it’s his Birthday. 🙂 🙂 Doctor checks the baby for good health and activity of the baby.

With lots of happiness, with lots of body pain Vinutha feels the giddiness and faints with a drop of tear in her eyes which means a lot. Miss her mom being a mom. She says to herself ‘Miss you mom :(’

Tears apart. With loads of happiness Nevin’s birth is celebrated like a festival everyday at home. So many relations visit Vinutha, to see Nevin. 😀 The air is filled with happiness. Nevin becomes the world for Vinutha. 🙂 🙂

Cheers 🙂

May Be

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You ‘May be‘ the richest,

         But remember ‘Health is Wealth’. 

You ‘May be‘ the most beautiful,

         But remember to ‘Smile‘ Coz it makes you more beautiful. 🙂

You ‘May be‘ the most wise man,

          But remember ‘Knowledge is an Ocean‘ 🙂

You ‘May be‘ anything in this world,

          But remember ‘God‘ is above you. 🙂
Cheers 🙂

May Be

>F.R.I.E.N.D<

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Few Relations In Earth Never Dies…..

As you grow you start meeting new people. In the park where you play, in your play school, in your school, in your college, in your work place, during your travel, in the social media, etc,. You create a relationship with them. That relationship does not see the race, the colour, the wealth, the age, the gender, the physic, the location, the language etc. Without seeing anything and without expecting anything this relationship grows as time moves. In that relationship you never let down the other. In a healthy competition, both of you try to reach the heights. You pull each other’s leg, you help the other to fall in love, you have fun together, you solve troubles together, you play pranks together, what not!!!

You always be straight at face when it comes to guiding, giving suggestions & feedback and never have a word behind the other. Behind you, there is only a positive conversation about you. This relationship will always be your strength. It keeps encouraging you. There is no chance of discouraging. It has always been supportive. Even if you don’t talk to the other for many days or months or years, this relationship is alive. The other will always understand you and your situation. This relationship is never a trouble and it’s only full of happiness 🙂 🙂

You only MISS the person in his/her absence but the relationship still exists.

And that relation is named ‘FRIEND’…

Love you my friends 🙂 🙂 ❤

Cheers 🙂

Memories !!

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The very 1st day of life on earth for every living thing is the “BIRTH DAY”….

Seconds goes…. minutes run… days passes… months keep changing… years get increased…. What not with the time !!!

Yup !! Time is something which you cannot hold or pause. So when I understand the movement of time, I do not think of creating a time machine which is going to help me with travelling to my past or future. But it is the memories which I have to preserve.

Memories….What is it ? Does it get created by itself ? Does someone else create it for you always ? The answer is NO……!!!

We create our memories. The forgettable incidents that happen as and when the time moves. Few memories are sweet, many happy, few are painful, etc,. The flavour of my memory depends on the creator and most of the time, it is ME !

Every year, the 1st day we came to earth makes us feel special. 🙂 🙂

That special day is celebrated in the way we want to. Not all celebrations happens with your mom, dad, some someone special, birthday song, claps, chocolates, treats, fun, etc.

This makes me think, what memory does others have about me from the years which I have crossed. 1..2..3..4.. May be countable..

Thinking… Thinking… Thinking !!!

Finally a bang !!! I am also God’s creation. What’s the reason of my birth ? Why have I been brought to this place called ‘EARTH‘ ? Why should I be a part of other’s memory ? What is the impact of being in other’s memory ?

So many questions… But no answer.. Am in search mode 😀 😀

I see my memories with a different perception. I see other people in my memories. I don’t even know why are they in my memory ? What do they do in my memory ? I dig in my memory, I travel a looooooong way searching the answer…….

I find happie and good memories. They make me smile. Few make me proud of what I have done. Few have made me bring happiness in other people’s life. These memories help me take life positively and happily. This gives me strength. 

I find bad memories. They teach me lessons of LIFE. They teach me how to react to certain people. They let me know the different kinds of human available. They help me understand the level of negativity and also to avoid the same.

Yeah !!! I have found the reason of me being on this EARTH for these many years. LIFE on earth is to live happily and not to spoil other’s happiness. As TIME moves, things changes, people around me will change but I will still exist with all these memories motivating me to complete my creator’s wish.

And one day I shall become a happie memory in some one else’s life 🙂 🙂 🙂

Whatever happens life goes on……..

Cheers 🙂 😉